I will share something from my life here, one thing I learnt

[Tobi]

I will share something from my life here, one thing I learnt in a hard way is the understanding, and it is the one word that is not very simple as it is, because many times we feel like we know something but actually we are not, knowing something doesnt always mean having understanding on something, for example I know Mr. X for a while, but it do not necessarily mean I understand him.

So many times in life people miss this clarity in life, and that is why we keep wrong understandings in mind and make mistakes, and sometimes we commit blunders. It can be in career, family , friendship or whatever it may be.

And I want people to get this before 25, thankyou !!

 

[Gwolf66]

Thank you for sharing this with us. Believe me, it's always helpful for someone to read things like this. You might be helping someone by sharing this with all of us.

 

[boolgermaine]

You have touched on something very important. Knowing someone or something is one step but understanding is a different level. Understanding requires depth and empathy not just facts. Many make the mistake of assuming they know and end up making blunders in their careers or relationships. I agree with you that this clarity, if achieved before the age of 25, helps a lot in avoiding big mistakes. It is a life lesson that builds wisdom and respect for others.

 

[Blazing]

Understanding someone means we are doing empathy and Perspective-taking: Put yourself in the other person's shoes. Seek to understand their emotions, motivations, and underlying concerns. This empathic approach allows for more meaningful connections .

 

[boolgermaine]

Anyone with these attributes is a super human.
Regrettably, today's world does not encourage folks to have the ability to understand others. Superficiality and non-sensical rush is the norm.

 

[Blazing]

Sometimes we don't judt have to judged people by their covers. Reading through the pages might be helpful to understand them.