I can tell you what I did. I snapped at everyone for calling out my flaws in such an open manner. Private things stay private. Just because you made a mistake doesn’t mean it has any business being in the open. They are at fault here. You have every right to be angry. This is an injustice to you. Private matters should be handled… privately.
Deal with public humiliation?
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boolgermaine
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I read you well. There you have made a strong point about privacy and respect. People exposing your mistakes in public without your consent is like undressing you in front of a crowd. Your anger is justified because internal matters should be dealt with calmly and privately. It is injustice when you are forced to share your weaknesses in a public way. A person's dignity remains safe if the boundaries of privacy are respected.
boolgermaine
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It helps if the humiliated party has the necessary mental mettle to calmly handle the situation. This way, the humiliating party would be put down.
This is what happens to very emotional persons. They are a lot of things that you can't handle without shedding tears.but it is just your kind of person.
boolgermaine
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Was waiting for you to say that public humiliation would cause you to become violent. Glad that this is not the case.